well, this is the only picture that was taken of me 2 weeks ago at the Women’s Conference in Vajta. This was the only way I could approve of myself wearing a tiara… No offense, tiaras are pretty and all, just not for me:-)
So the conference’s title was Daughters of the King. It was a blessing and some of the teachings really touched me. Though this whole being a princess is hard for me to identify with I’m aware of the fact that we indeed should look at ourselves as heiress’ of The King. It is true that we, women and men, forget that the Creator of the Universe, the King of Kings is our father thus we are royal. Everything that belongs to Him=everything, belongs to us. This is worth pondering upon. Both for women and men.
I don’t think anyone who knows me would look at me and would think of a princess to say the least… And me being the way I am, found it a little annoying that I should force myself into this image of a princess. Just because I’m a women and belong to the King I need to be all “pink” and “princessy” (if there is a word like that at all). As a matter of fact it just made me think about the so called roles society and by this I mostly try to refer to the Christian society dictates us. You are a mother=you need to have tons of kids and you need to be a stay-at-home mom, working is not “godly” anymore OR you are a mother and you stay at home with the tons of the kids=you have no life and you are as good as dead when it comes to real life out there. You are a single women=you haven’t reached the goal (being married that is) yet, etc. I know we all could come up with the cliches that irritate us the most, these are the ones that drive me up the wall. And as I was listening to those women on the pulpit I was really happy when one of them shared an example with describing her boxing lessons. Boy was that a relief! So all I’m saying is that thousands and ten thousand of tiny details define a women and the biggest mistake is trying to force someone to be a person that she is not for the sake of “being princess”. And too many times we are judging each other based on stupid cliches and most of the times we don’t think just say those cliches ’cause that’s what every one says and “this is how it always has been done”. So I’m wrapping up this little post with an other cliche: THINK OUTSIDE THE BOX! please. please.

bye ya’ll